The heart wants what it wants—and that’s something Selena Gomez will always embrace.
“I feel like giving myself completely to something is the best way I can love,” the 30-year-old explained during a Nov. 7 appearance on Jay Shetty’s On Purpose podcast. “But I never wanted the pain that I endured to put some sort of guard on myself—an armor if you will—and I never let that happen because I still believe and I still hope.”
The Only Murders in the Building actress went on to say that she hopes for love, healing and change. “Of course there are days that I feel so far away,” Selena confessed. “But I would rather continue to get my heartbroken than to not feel at all.”
The Rare Beauty founder got candid during her Apple TV+ documentary, Selena Gomez: My Mind & Me, about past heartbreak with her ex Justin Bieber.
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